Observations from the hammock: The woman of my time slowed 
Nobody would doubt the importance of each moment in life. Every thing happens to us in a particular context, composed of people and circumstances. Things happen before and will surely keep things going afterwards, but every moment is unique. It can last minutes, hours, months or years, and as time goes by, we are understanding and making more aware of the beginning and end of those periods of life we \u200b\u200btravel. Some are very important, too intense, some more happy and some that we would have liked not having to live ever. What is clear is that life is made up of many very different times. I think the main difference is expressed in the fluctuations of our emotions, and this affects everything. People, places, ages, desires, etc. A enchastre of things that make up the moments and make them unique and unrepeatable.
wondering where I'm going with this, that in itself sounds pretty obvious. All we ever think, or what we are doing, there women out there (u man) of life. Some may say that next to it, others rely on the world and the cosmic forces meet with her and, some feel pessimistic and resigned, if still not found, they will not in future, even if they think that walk there. These are just some of many possible beliefs. What I believe is that there is, as a god or many other concepts romantically compelling but really unlikely. Eye anyway I think this is negative or discouraging, quite the opposite. Is pure observation of reality. When we say "the woman of my life" should say "woman of my time," or perhaps "the women in my time (obviously is true for all sexual orientations). The point is in the components of each moment, how they affect us and transform us, and the prevailing sentiment that emerges. The latter is key since I'm not closing the possibility that a couple can have a longstanding relationship healthy enough. What I am saying is that the number of variables that make a moment, as I mentioned before, many times determine or should determine the end of a relationship that lasted as long as was appropriate for that period of time, but now those involved should be held to new feelings to inaugurate new experiences. The extension in time of a couple occurs when both individual development and adaptability are high, and forming assuming both love.
The problem is that the issue of relations (forever) is highly idealized, super-rooted socio-culturally, making it tremendously more difficult separation to make room for the next moment (this). We all know how hard it is, often, for a widowed person rebuild their lives (beyond the pain of grief), so imagine how much more difficult it can be changed if your partner is still alive and meters. Leaving aside the tragic, the interesting thing about this issue I think is in the de-dramatization of things when we can see, feel and live the moment fully. Exist without looking both backward and forward much speculation.
PS only say "the woman of my life" when he lived it all and you can determine what it was (in this case I think it would potentially harmful)
Image: Cele Volpe
